LoLa's Mind - Being the best that YOU can be

For as long as I can remember, I have used so much energy on comparing myself with other people, thinking why am I a size 8 when all my friends are a 6, why am I a blonde when my friends are brunettes, why are my parents such hippies when my friends' parents are normal, and the list goes on! One of my resolutions for new years was that I should simply become the best version of me, and not the best version of me compared to someone else. I find that so much of the energy that I could use on developing and becoming a better me, is spent worrying about what I am in reference to others. And funnily enough, the one I compare myself with is always the smartest, the coolest, the skinniest that I can possibly find. This obsession with perfectionism must now come to an end, and I hereby declare that I am done wasting energy on negativity, and will invest all my energy in becoming the absolute best version of ME!

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